These are great tips but they sound ‘American’ English mistakes. Also, the ‘uptick’ at the end of the sentence makes you sound unprofessional and clumsy. I first noticed this in American movies, especially ones set in NY. Now many speaks like that, even in the UK and other places. I’ve stopped this doing this but it took time! Watch Joe Navarro talk about this habit and how it pulls your presentation down.
Great tips Lisa! Thank you for this video on how to speak confidently. Youtube recommended your video when I was watching the Woman of Elegance channel. I've liked this video and subscribed to your channel.
On 9 Feb 2022, the 'Side Particles' tip caught my ear & I immediately shared this video with my fellow Malaysians & Singaporean friends. I'm glad that this advice has enlightened so many people with 11 million views to date. Singaporeans are notorious with 'actually' in their casual, formal conversations & Vlogs. My fellow Malaysians too are habitual with 'basically' triggering multiple spasms & cringes. Thanks!
ChatGPT is quite helpful in learning concise expression, particularly in Spanish where language tends to be more elaborate. I'm in awe and obsessed with it 😅
This video is ummm kind of like GARBAGE! tip for you is to get your point across and move on. You made your point in the first minute and a half of the video. This is a 16 minute video about not using filler words. And your filler words you picked are obvious to anyone theyre not good communication skills. Did you make this video for 3-year-olds
There are also pragmatic uses of language, implications related to style and implicit meanings in, for example, this "filling the gaps" "not necessary" words that could be full of meqning. In this case the way she was describing the appointment could better communicate the sense of uncertainty and indecision about leaving that she actually experienced
I hate "kind of like" it is or isn't a certain way. Kind of like sets my teeth on edge. It's overused here in Ireland and it makes the speaker sound dense.
However from my many work experiences the people who run the show or are highly noted use all the filler words/verbose. They love speaking that way bc they appear to the general audience more intentional while I keep it short and simple and they see me as effortless negatively
Are you taking inconsideration the growing research on how certain phrases and filler words actually ease tension and build rapport & trust kind of like much like the softening technique of the " compliments sandwich" for giving feedback/criticism
logically what you're saying makes sense if computers with no emotions were speaking to one another. Now I would be interested to see what Research demonstrates as opposed to simple logic.
Hi, Lisa. Thanks for having me on the channel again. I love your work and community and I'm honored to be a part of it.
These are great tips but they sound ‘American’ English mistakes. Also, the ‘uptick’ at the end of the sentence makes you sound unprofessional and clumsy. I first noticed this in American movies, especially ones set in NY. Now many speaks like that, even in the UK and other places. I’ve stopped this doing this but it took time! Watch Joe Navarro talk about this habit and how it pulls your presentation down.
Thank you kindly
Great tips Lisa! Thank you for this video on how to speak confidently. Youtube recommended your video when I was watching the Woman of Elegance channel. I've liked this video and subscribed to your channel.
Hi im Lisa this is shock me
Accurate American English
Verbose = Advance english speaker, so called.
Concise = Beginner english, small vocabularies.
"You kind of like have an infection" Haha
On 9 Feb 2022, the 'Side Particles' tip caught my ear & I immediately shared this video with my fellow Malaysians & Singaporean friends. I'm glad that this advice has enlightened so many people with 11 million views to date. Singaporeans are notorious with 'actually' in their casual, formal conversations & Vlogs. My fellow Malaysians too are habitual with 'basically' triggering multiple spasms & cringes. Thanks!
Thank you Liza , great topic !
Question- are fillers and side particles the same thing?
Thank you so much for this video, it has been so helpful.
Speak as you would write an algorithm….. concise.
Hi lisa. Thanks for this. However, "everything being equal" carries a lot of meaning in many scenarios
Just what I needed. Thank you so much!
You are speaking to me.
Thank you
Thank you Mr,Alex
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ChatGPT is quite helpful in learning concise expression, particularly in Spanish where language tends to be more elaborate. I'm in awe and obsessed with it 😅
I chuckled at the thought of a doctor saying, “it’s kind of like he has diabetes…” 😆 it really is absurd.
This video is ummm kind of like GARBAGE! tip for you is to get your point across and move on. You made your point in the first minute and a half of the video. This is a 16 minute video about not using filler words. And your filler words you picked are obvious to anyone theyre not good communication skills. Did you make this video for 3-year-olds
Mrs. I like your videos very much. Your teaching style is also very pragmatic. Thank you.
Thank you. ❤️
There are also pragmatic uses of language, implications related to style and implicit meanings in, for example, this "filling the gaps" "not necessary" words that could be full of meqning.
In this case the way she was describing the appointment could better communicate the sense of uncertainty and indecision about leaving that she actually experienced
I hate "kind of like" it is or isn't a certain way. Kind of like sets my teeth on edge. It's overused here in Ireland and it makes the speaker sound dense.
Thank you for the helpful tips and good laught with the "kind of like" doctor examples. 😆
My boss hates my concise emails lol
In short, being more direct is professional.
He said “out of habit” for side particle examples. I thought we say “by force of habit” . Please clarify.
Thanks they are good tips
It is bad English to start a sentence with because
She sounds like Connie, Sheldon’s granny
Thanks! This is splendid:)
So when you say "it doesnt necessarily mean" do you really need to say "necessarily"???
Another filler that is over used is "You know what I mean"
Thank you lisa for your explanation and for your kind words and your pronunciation
However from my many work experiences the people who run the show or are highly noted use all the filler words/verbose. They love speaking that way bc they appear to the general audience more intentional while I keep it short and simple and they see me as effortless negatively
Are you taking inconsideration the growing research on how certain phrases and filler words actually ease tension and build rapport & trust kind of like
much like the softening technique of the " compliments sandwich" for giving feedback/criticism
logically what you're saying makes sense if computers with no emotions were speaking to one another. Now I would be interested to see what Research demonstrates as opposed to simple logic.
Please cite the research / your sources.
This is so helpful
amazing points made
I kind of like feel like this could help me out in the future like
I use side particles to explain👍.thank you for this video its very useful i found my self using these bad habbits for the way i talk.
Another famous filler is “if I am being honest“ – makes it sounds like you are not honest the rest of the time.
I like to keep it simple – fear or empower.
''If…. is a little word with a Big meaning.''